Wednesday, July 15, 2009

King Of Pop Often Spent Up To 72 Hours Lying 'Like A Living Corpse,' Says Jackson's Nurse

Category: Celebrity Health News
Wednesday, July 15, 2009 at 11:21:19 AM
Michael Jackson was so hooked on to the powerful sedative Diprivan that he often begged to be knocked out like a zombie, in order to cope with the pain of continuous laser facial peels.

Kathryn Buschelle, his former plastic surgery
nurse, alleges the late singer became obsessed with lightening his skin, and would subsequently crave for the drug to relieve himself of thepain.
"Michael's obsession with his appearance led to more and more skin treatments and his subsequent addiction to Diprivan led to even more. It was an insane cycle," British tabloid The Sun quoted her as saying. He was literally burning his skin off and then being knocked out like a zombie. It reads like ahorror movie script. Towards the end of the 90s he was a dead man walking, that's how zoned out he was," she added.

Kathryn also said that the King of Pop often spent up to 72 hours lying "like a living corpse."

She said: "The drug began to be the sole purpose he would come to the clinic. He would stay a few days, sometimes spending as long as 72 hours under. Michael effectively mummified himself. He'd just lie like a living corpse."

She added: "There were many more grafts, during which Michael could see that he could achieve a lighter skin tone through peeling layers and layers of skin along with lightening agents. Michael, I was told, spotted the white skin beneath, which excited him. It prompted him to progress on to bleaching, acid facial peeling and then on to laser treatments."

Source-ANI
ARU

Living Together Before Marriage Can End Up In Divorce: Study

Living Together Before Marriage Can End Up In Divorce: Study

Category: Lifestyle News
Wednesday, July 15, 2009 at 4:13:34 PM

 Living Together Before Marriage Can End Up In Divorce: Study - Medindia
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Couples living together before marrying have a higher chance of getting divorced than those who wait until they were engaged or married, according to research out Tuesday in the Journal of Family Psychology.


The study, carried out by researchers from the University of Denver, also found that couples who lived together before marrying reported lower marriage satisfaction.

"We think that some couples who move in together without a clear commitment to marriage may wind up sliding into marriage partly because they are already cohabiting," said senior researcher and study co-author Galena Rhoades.

"It seems wise to talk about commitment and what living together might mean for the future of therelationship before moving in together, especially because cohabiting likely makes it harder to break up compared to dating," said another researcher, Scott Stanley.

More than 70 percent of couples in the United States live together before marrying, according to the article.

Yet the researchers "have found evidence that cohabiting before engagement, even only with one's future spouse, is associated with lower marital quality and higher divorce potential," the article read.

In a separate study that appeared in the Journal of Family Issues, the researchers studied the reasons why couples chose to live together.

The most common answer was because they wanted to spend more time together, followed by convenience, followed by testing the relationship.

Earlier research suggested that people cohabited before marrying because they wanted to test their relationship.

"Cohabiting to test a relationship turns out to be associated with the most problems in relationships," said Rhoades.

Source-AFP
SRM

Monday, July 31, 2006

I remember...


I remember
Your last words
Can’t forget
Your last glimpse

I search for you
In the shadows of love
I wander for you
In the deserts of thirst

You left me
In a lonely island
You vanished
In the clouds dark

But dear love
Did you ever come
To see me changing
In a silent stone

I am now a living statue
Waiting for you
To come and touch me
And give me life

I want to breathe again
I want a last smile
Before I die
Give me a last tear…

Come make me feel
That I was loved once
Before I slept
In the deep graveyard…

Tuesday, June 20, 2006

Tere talabgar hum na the...









Tere talabgar hum na the
Hamnawa tere hum na the
Phir bhi kho ke tumhe
Kyu base ho mujh me tum

Paun tumhe chaha na tha
Chahun tumhe socha na tha
Pa ke tumhe kho na saka
Paya nahi, kho na saka

Kyu ab bhi yaad ate ho
Kyu neendo se jagate ho
Kyu Ankhon me base ho tum
Man me, tan me kyu ho tum

Jaun tum se door kahan
Mere rahnuma ho tum
Daman churaun kis tarah
Nazrein bachaun kis tarah

Meri dhadkanein teri tarah
Teri justaju meri dastan
Tere naam shabe hijr hai
Mere ashq ki zuban ho tum

-Dr S Hoda
399-B, Sarita Vihar
11:16 pm
20.06.2006

Tune Tan Man Me...




















Tune tan man me
Yu utara hame
Dil ki dhadkan se
Itna chaha hame

Kuch adhura hai
Jism kahli hai
Tum gaye jab se
Kuch le gaye mujh se

Main wahi pe hu
Ab bhi zinda hun
Aankh pyasi hai
Ek jhalak de do

Teri ahat hai
Koi bhi aye
Teri khushbu hai
Har jagah tum ho

Kash tum aao
Sans baki hai
Kafan pe mere
Hath rakh jao

Mana ulfat me
Befawa main hun
Pyar kho kar bhi
Bas tumhara hun…

-Dr S Hoda {Shams}
15/06/06 - 4pm
Apollo OT

Wednesday, March 01, 2006

Tere naam kar diya










Zindagi ka har simt, Aye Kashish
humne aaj tere naam kar diya
Phulon ko, hawaon ko, humne ye paigam de diya

Aaj ki raat, ya to mila de hamein
ya fana kar de...
Shama ne ne khud jal ke,
parwane ke jumbish ko salaam kar liya

Paun tumhe, zindagi ki tamanna hai meri
Chu kar labon ko mere,
tune ye kam bhi anjaam kar diya

Mere kabr pe do aansoo gira ke tumne
Aaj phir mere pyar ko badnaam kar diya..

-"Ehasa" Dr S Hoda

Euthanasia













Specific Purpose: At the end of my words, the you will be able to list reasons why euthanasia is a justified idea.

Central Idea:

Introduction:

Do you know who Dr. Jack Kyvorkian is and what he did?

He was an advocate for euthanasia and actually carried out the procedure.

We all have heard the term euthanasia but many of us do not know exactly what it is.

I have spent many hours researching euthanasia on the Internet and have learned a lot about it.

Today I will tell you what euthanasia is and why people should support the idea because it is not morally wrong if the patient asks for it, if a patient wants to die with dignity, and a family asks for euthanasia to move on in the grieving process.

Body:

Euthanasia is the act of bringing about the death of another person, but not in the sense of killing them for the mere sake of killing.

Most people who perform euthanasia is because the patient asks them to do so.

The main way euthanasia is performed is by poison injections intravenously—like lethal injections used in prison.

Euthanasia is performed because the person lacks the ability to commit suicide or is not able to make the decision to be pulled off life support himself.

Euthanasia can be voluntary or involuntary.

Euthanasia is not murder.

If a person is suffering from a long-term illness and feels as if he would be better off dead, one can ask for euthanasia.

Euthanasia is a way out of pain if one knows he or she will die in the next few months.

People ask to be euthanized to die with dignity.

In the society we live in, no one wants to be seen as weak, so people choose euthanasia to keep people from feeling sorry for them.

Some ask for euthanasia so there will not be tons of hospital bills left for his loved ones to pay.

A family asks for euthanasia so they will move on in the grieving process.

Parents and children who are comatose or on respirators are sometimes euthanized because the family feels like it is time to let go.

This is an example of involuntary euthanasia.

Family sometimes have this distorted perception of reality that someone in a coma for ten years will just wake-up and that reality is false—they are keeping them alive to keep from having to deal with pain of losing someone important.

Types:

I. Voluntary euthanasia -- that is, with those instances of euthanasia in which a clearly competent person makes a voluntary and enduring request to be helped to die.

II. Non-voluntary euthanasia -- instances of euthanasia where a person is either not competent to, or unable to, express a wish about euthanasia, and there is no one authorised to make a substituted judgment (wherein a proxy chooses as the no longer competent patient would have chosen had she remained competent) -- in the context of considering the claim that permitting voluntary euthanasia will lead via a slippery slope to permitting non-voluntary euthanasia.

Conclusion:

Now you have learned what euthanasia is and how they believe it is okay to be assisted in suicide. Some people want to die with dignity, and some people have no choice whether to be euthanized.

So next time someone brings up how wrong euthanization is you can tell them that you believe that since it is legal to kill yourself, if you are not able to commit suicide why can’t someone do it for you?

References

Dalbey, Beth. “Pets and People deserve to die with grace, dignity.” Business Record (Des Moines). 2002. 1 page. EBSCO. 29 Mar 2005.

“Last Rights; Euthanasia.” The Economist. Nov 2001. 3 pages. EBSCO. 29 Mar 2005.

Young, Robert. “Voluntary Euthanasia.” Stanford Encyclopedia of Philosophy. 2002. 12 pages. Online. http://plato.stanford.edu/entries/euthanasia-voluntary. 29 Mar 2005.

Robinson, B.A. “Euthanasia and Physician Assisted Suicide: All Sides.” Nov 2001. 9 pages. Online. http://www.religioustolerance.org/ 29 Mar 2005.

Rogatz, Peter. “Speaking out… ‘physician-assisted suicide should be legalized….’” Long Island Business News. Aug 1997. 4 pages. Online. EBSCO. 29 Mar 2005.

Thursday, February 23, 2006

Sehar hone ko hai










Sehar hone ko hai, gar aftab intezar kar le
khwab me hum tumhe kuch waqt aur pyar kar le

Khwahish hai ke sine me bhar le tumko
Koi aur parwana na tumse pyar karle

Raunak dek kar shamma bhi jal gayi tumse
Hajate raushan nahi, aye shamma intezar kar le

Pyar ki tumhare har waqt zarurat hai mujhe
Bahon me tumhe aao giraftar kar le

-"Ufaq" Dr S Hoda & Arnab Raj

Wednesday, February 22, 2006

Zaruri Nahi










Har baat ko kahna zaruri nahi,
Labe khamosh ka kanpkapana kya kafi nahi

Aankhon ne tumse ye kaha to tha
Dhadkano ne unko suna ke nahi

Paun tumhe ye zaruri nahi
Kho kar jo paya wo kam to nahi

Tumhe zindagi me basaya hai maine
Zinda rahu ye zaruri nahi

"Ehsas"- Dr S Hoda

Sunday, February 19, 2006

Lamhe










Guftagu aap se kar payein to achcha ho
Khwab me hi sahi gar aap ayein, to achcha ho

Zindagi me aap hi hain, ye malum hai hamein
Ye Lamha aap ke sath ho, to achcha ho

Aap hi honge nigahon me, shabe-kohbar me
Surat abhi dikha jayein, to achcha ho

Umar bhar mohabbat nibhane ke liye
Intahye-Ishq dikha jayein, toachcha ho...

-"Ehsas" Dr S Hoda

Friday, February 17, 2006

Kho diya tumne


Mujhe pa ke bhi, Kho diya tumne
Jiteji fana kar diya tumne
Zinda rah kar bhi ji na saka
Maut manga par milti nahi

Mujhe gham diya, shukriya tera
Chahat ka haq ada kiya tumne
Tune jo zakhm diya, tohfa-e mohabbat hai
mere aankhon ke ashq, teri enayat hai

Nigahon se sahi, chum lo ek bar mujhe
Pa na saka, pane ka tasauwar to de do
Ek muskurahat mere naam kar do
Main har sans tere naam kar dun

Itna na girao nazron se mujhe
Ke ji na paun apne bojh tale
Sans lene ka na sahi
Ek baar pyar karne ka haq de do mujhe...

-"Ehsas" {Dr S Hoda}

Kashish








Aye Kashish sun le zara, mere dil ki dastan
Ek ankahe se pyar ki gumshuda si dastan

Jab se tumne hai chua, gum hu main madhosh hun
Pa kar tumhe na pa saka, kho kar tumhe na kho saka

Jab se duba hun, teri ankhon ki gahrai me
Kya hai jina kya hai marna, phirta hun tanhai me

Kuch kaho tum kuch suno, is bebasi ki dastan
Sanson ki awargi ko dhadkano ko chu lo tum

Kash main kah pata tum se, tu hi mera pyar hai
Jhuta sahi ek baar kah do, tum ko mujh se pyar hai...

- "Ehsas" Dr S Hoda

Wednesday, February 15, 2006

Be My Valentine


Since morning
I was waiting for your call
I went to washroom
waiting for your call
I went for coffee
When I got your call
I saw you
U Looked B'ful
I felt frozen, couldnt express
how pretty you looked in Red
Your Eyes, Ocean of Love
I felt immersed
Your Lips, the Finest Wine
I craved to kiss them
Your Smile, a lovers pride
took my senses away
Your Face, the blooming Rose
emprisoned me forever

I wished you Valentine's Day
you smiled, I missed a beat
touched your hands
asked for a date
and you smiled in consent
I skipped a beat again

It was late, office closed
I waited for you, till late
I felt sad, losing patience
And I saw you, trying desperately,
to call me from booth
and we met again

You looked more b'ful in evening lights
Thought we are going out for a date
But, you said, you were unable to...
your boss was taking the team for a party
I felt mad, crazy, upset, debrided
wanted to cry, with you in my eyes

And suddenly, U held my hands
swiftly, gently, caressing
i felt in heaven
You had ten minutes for me
more than a century, for me

I looked in those eyes with love
kissed your hands with passion
caressed cheeks, blew the hairs
held the waist, wishing you to come close
you shyingly, stepped back
I stretched my arms
longing for you to come in it
You thought, and you came
and embraced me, with ectasy
I held you tight, kissed your ear
It was divine, heaven!
Passionate, fuming!
I could feel your breath
urging to kiss me

It was time to go, you said
You smiled, with love
Felt proud of the moment
went away, slowly
You took my life with you
I became you
You became me

I'l wait for you, to come again
dont know, if you'l come back, Ever!
But what you gave me
is enough for this life
I feel complete

Cant forget your warmth
your breath, the fragrance
the touch, its ectasy
I'l love you, love you forever
I'l wait for you, now and ever

You gave me life
I feel breathless, still!
You gave love, I feel thirsty yet
I kissed you, my lips are burning
I felt you then, feeling you now
thanks for being my love
You are my Valentine!
Come... I'm waiting
Longing for you....

Monday, February 13, 2006

Dushmano ka zamana hai


Sitare bhi niharte hain aapko
ke dusmano ka zamana hai
dushman mere ek nahi faqat
dushmano ka zamana hai

Deedar kare kya aapka
jo parda kiya hai aapne
ye aanchal bhi bane hain beraham
dushmano ka zamana hai

Seene me bhar liye
kuch aur paas aa jate
ye duri bhi lage hai beraham
dushmano ka zamana hai

Nazar utarun jab aapka
rukh to dekhna hoga
ye nazar na laga de nazar
dushmano ka zamana hai...

"Ufaq" {Dr S Hoda & Arnab Raj}

Chehra Tera...









Palkein jo band hui kabhi, dikhe chehra tera,
Khwab jo dekha kabhi, dikhe chehra tera,

Mohabbat me mujhe ye kayam mila,
Jise bhi dekhu, dikhe chehra tera..

Khwab me gar tum raho, khuda kare qayamat ho,
khwahish yahi hai khuda se, dikhe chehra tera..

Kafan taan ke jab so jayenge hum,
Yahi hai dua khuda se, dikhe chehra tera..


-"Ufaq" {Dr S Hoda & Arnab Raj}

Saturday, February 11, 2006

Ab Ek Sans Hi Baki Hai...


Bemani si hai zindagi
Ajnabi hai har koi
Bikhra bikhra sa rahta hun
Tanha tanha main phirta hun...

Chahat ke pal bhi ayenge
Is ummid pe jeeta hun
Phir sham hone ko hai
Raat phir dhal jayegi...

Ek dhundhla chehra tha aankhon me
Palko me pighal gaya kahin
Ab to raat hi saathi hai
Ab ek sans hi baki hai...

-"Ehsas" {Dr S Hoda}

Monday, February 06, 2006

Falling in Love


Its true
love lives in each being
its passionate.. ectacsy.. uncontrolled
most fortunate incident in life
may be accident..
or say fall..
what is a fall
injurious or traumatic
but a fall is a fall..
it may be gentle and caressing
falling in love is one
fall may be fatal
love is always fatal...
all fears die in love
love is a boon
it is the power
that keeps the world revolving
that make my eyes go wet....when i miss u
i m so fortunate..
that i fell in love with u..
still waiting for u...
to come and make me complete
dont know when
may b in this life...or the next
still i'm waiting
i'l wait 4ever... till i die
i'm fortunate to be in love with u...
i'l feel lucky... to die for u
i'm proud to say
that I'm Loved by U
I still miss U
Do U miss me too!

Friday, February 03, 2006

Woman on Top


Women r above all
The most b'ful creation
The most sexiest
The most respectful
The most patient
The most caring
The most Shahansheel
The Sister
The Daughter
The Mother
The Soulmate lifepartner Ardhangini...
Still God made Man the Master,the guardian,the dominating..The Lover
Yes, if man wud not be there in existence...
Who wud have praised all this about woman
Who wud have understood qualities of a woman..
SHE is valueless without HIM
HIM is incomplete without HER..
No 1 cud see this b'ful human culture without BOTH...
but still... Woman is on top!

Monday, January 30, 2006

Do we really fall in Love?


In this material world of selfish desires, we all fantacise living in our dream world of fulfilling desires, try acheiving our infatuation based relations to the extreme level of fullfilment... and in the procss of getting it say I Love U to many, develop transient emotional relation, get intimate mentally & physically, finally get hurt when it breaks up after some misunderstandings or unfaithfullness or overpossesiveness, resultant is that we say all men or girls are the same selfish souls...
Yet there are some selfless devoted lovers still... they live for one and only one.. Sometimes happy but many a times called as emotional fools!!
Tell me what your inner instict and your lovely or bitter experience says about it dear.....?

Friday, December 23, 2005

what is Meditation


What is meditation? hv u experienced state of trance and hypnosis? tell me ur experiences if u hv some wonderful views to tell ...